John Raymond

Tholkes

John Raymond Tholkes (JT) passed away peacefully at the age of 83 November 9, 2026 surrounded by loved ones. John was born March 12, 1943 in NE Mpls to Vincent and Ruth Tholkes where he lived most of his life raising his daughters Dawn and Debbie.

John Married Barb (Bollig) in 1996 and moved to the suburbs. They enjoyed 33 years of marriage and enjoyed spending time with their family and friends, snowmobiling, fishing, traveling and Jt’s love of Nascar. JT was known for his sense of humor and his soft heart when it came to his loved ones.

John displayed inner strength and tenacity in overcoming many physical and emotional hardships following his accident 22 years ago. JT rarely complained and when asked how he was doing, He would reply, “I am living my best life”.

John is reunited in death with his precious granddaughter Olivia Ambuhl, Twin brother Jim and his wife Les Tholkes, Sister Carol Boyles, Nephews Todd, Troy, Kelly, and great nephew Adam. Sister-in-law Lisa Bollig.

Left to Mourn Johns life on earth are his Beloved wife Barb, cherished daughters Dawn (Mark) Rogers, Debbie Danielson. His favorite Grandkids Nicole, Austin and Brooke (Mason), Danielson, Alex (Whitney) Ambuhl, and Lexi (Andy) Sutterer. One Great Granddaughter who lit up John’s world Navy Noel Sutterer. Sister Louis Poole, Brothers David and Tom Tholkes. His Mother-in-law Bernice Bollig whom he lovingly called Mrs. B. Special Nephew Godson Scott (Teresa) Poole and Niece Kristi Tholkes. Life Long Best Freind Ron (Karen) Lyke and Numerous Nephews, Nieces, brothers and sister in laws and many friends.

John will be sorely missed but, in his words, “It is between me and my God now”

John wanted to say to his loved ones at this time: “Until we meet again, walk steady and I love you all.”

Memorial Services Tuesday, November 24, 2026 at 11 am at Thurston-DeShaw Funeral Home, 13817 Jay Street, NW, Andover. Visitation one hour prior to services.